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10 Suicidal Quotes And Sayings With Interpretations

Nearly everyone goes through a time in life in which they experience depression. Whether it’s unfavorable environmental factors, traumatic experiences, and/or dealing with mental illness, depression has become very common. In some cases, the depression becomes so overwhelming, that we are unable to cope with it.  The inability to cope with severe depression is what leads most people to become suicidal – they believe there is no hope for their current situation.

No one is immune to feeling depressed and suicidal – even the most seemingly upbeat and well put-together celebrities like Robin Williams have fallen victim to suicide. In order to get through a tough time when we feel suicidal, sometimes we just need to hear that other people have felt this same way, and have survived to live long, productive lives.  Below is a compilation of various quotes and sayings that express what it’s like to feel suicidal.

10 Suicidal Quotes and Sayings + Interpretations

One way some people cope with feeling suicidal is to seek out inspirational quotes that we can relate to when we feel a particular way.  These are quotes that people have stated that may help you gain perspective on the topic of suicide.  Many of these quotes contain big-picture messages or inspiration, while others reflect the reality a person faces when they feel suicidal.

1. “But in the end one needs more courage to live than to kill himself.” – Albert Camus

Most individuals believe that the act of suicide is cowardly. Whether it actually is cowardly is debatable. However, individuals that consider suicide tend to hold the belief that they are not courageous enough to deal with the pain that they are experiencing in life. In reality, the quote by Albert Camus is highly accurate based on the fact that it can take significant courage to continue living when your entire reality is ridden with pain.

2. “When you’re young and healthy you can plan on Monday to commit suicide, and by Wednesday you’re laughing again.” – Marilyn Monroe

This is a great quote from Marilyn Monroe because it highlights the ability of mood and circumstances to change by the day, especially among young people. One day you may be dealing with a bad breakup or traumatic event and want to end it all, the next day you may have found a new friend or someone to love and are grateful that you stuck around. This quote does a good job of summing up life: some days you experience pain, but pleasure will eventually follow.

3. “Did you really want to die? No one commits suicide because they want to die. Then why do they do it? Because they want to stop the pain.” – Tiffanie DeBartolo

In most cases, this quote is highly accurate. Other than suicide for various religious or philosophical reasons, most people don’t really want to die, they just want to stop the pain. If those who are suffering could find a way to introduce more pleasure into their lives and actually enjoyed being alive, they likely wouldn’t even consider suicide. Suicidal thoughts signify that there is significant pain and/or some sort of dysfunction in life. Innate human instinct makes the act of suicide against our nature as human beings.

4. “There was a moment in my life when I really wanted to kill myself. And there was one other moment when I was close to that… But even in my most jaded times, I had some hope.” – Gerard Way

For anyone who is suicidal, it is important to realize that although circumstances may be difficult, you should always maintain hope that times will improve. If you feel depressed, something as simple as learning about the latest treatment developments or technology can help improve your mood.

Although you may feel as if you have already hit rock bottom and cannot recover, it is beneficial to remain hopeful that you’ll experience happiness and pleasure in your future. No matter how much pain you currently feel, maintaining hope for the future can be a great way to cope.

5. “The thought of suicide is a great consolation: by means of it one gets through many a dark night.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

This quote explains that the thought of suicide can help us get through tough times. In other words, we can think about suicide without actually following through with the act – hence the thought being referred to as a “great consolation.” For some individuals, just knowing that suicide is an option can be a thought that helps them cope with the pain that they are experiencing.

6. “Should I kill myself, or have a cup of coffee?” – Albert Camus

When it comes to the act of following through with suicide, many people experience indifference. This is very common among those with schizoid personality disorder – they may experience suicidal thoughts, but those thoughts may not be overwhelming enough to really matter. Additionally many people who are suicidal lack motivation to get out of bed, let alone actually plot a suicidal act. With this quote, the act of suicide is trivialized by suggesting that the author is more likely to attempt to experience a simple pleasure in life: having a cup of coffee.

7. “Nothing in my life has ever made me want to commit suicide more than people’s reaction to my trying to commit suicide.” – Emilie Autumn

There is significant stigma attached to individuals who attempt suicide. The fact that a person has attempted suicide can lead to others acting concerned. They may begin treating the person differently and/or acting as if they are a societal outcast for making the attempt. T

he reactions that people have when another person commits suicide can (in many cases), can further reinforce a person’s motivation for committing suicide. This suggests it is best to be mindful and supportive (of healing) as opposed to ignorant and complacent if you know someone who has attempted suicide.

8. “When people kill themselves, they think they’re ending the pain, but all they’re doing is passing it on to those they leave behind.” – Jeannette Walls

Many people who commit suicide are not fully aware that taking their own life can create an entirely different pain for the survivors. In many cases, the same degree of emotional pain is felt by those who have to carry on living with a family member or friend who took their own life.

Imagine a person you deeply care about taking their own life and think about how you would feel if this happened. This quote is realistic because although a suicide may end an individual’s internal pain, those who loved the person may now feel an incredible amount of guilt and suffer as a result of their devastating loss.

9. “I am constantly torn between killing myself and killing everyone around me.” – David Levithan

Many people get frustrated with the people in their environment and social settings. Sometimes feeling socially ostracized can make a person contemplate suicide and feelings of rage. In some cases, people feel like taking their anger and frustrations out on others around them. This quote represents the fact that in some cases, suicidal thoughts can be a result of the people in your immediate environment.

It represents the need for change in social groups, ending old relationships, and starting new, healthier ones. Being stuck in poor relationships can make some individuals feel as if the only way to escape is to take their own life.

10. “The man who kills a man kills a man. The man who kills himself kills all men. As far as he is concerned, he wipes out the world.” – G.K. Chesterton

This quote describes the fact that killing someone does not end your personal existence. However, when you take your own life, your entire world comes to an end. Your entire existence including emotions, environmental processing, experiences, and thoughts are your own. If you take your own life, your consciousness may cease to exist – therefore ending the entire world as you have come to know it.

How do you cope with suicidal thoughts and feelings?

Reading quotes may be beneficial because they often share insight into another person’s perspective on suicide and/or similar sentiments with your experience.  However, it is important to address these painful emotions and attempt to move forward with life.  How is this done? Usually by increasing a person’s ability to cope with their painful emotions as well as increasing the amount of pleasure in their life.

If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, it is important to get yourself professional help and/or share these feelings with someone you trust. Despite feeling depressed and struggling with pain, it is possible to enjoy life again. Most experts hypothesize that suicidal thoughts happen when a person’s emotional pain exceeds pleasure and/or their ability to cope with that pain.

If you are worried about someone who has been talking about taking their own life, be sure to understand common suicide warning signs and seek immediate professional help.  For more information on feeling suicidal read: causes of suicide and suicide risk factors.  As depression rates continue to climb, it is important to stay informed on how to cope with these feelings and how you can get someone who feels suicidal the help that they need.  Hopefully the quotes listed above can help certain individuals put their emotions in perspective.

Suicidal feelings are not permanent, they will eventually subside as a person figures out how to cope with their negative emotions (e.g. depression).  If you feel severely depressed, you could also read various inspirational depression quotes to provide you with more hope and inspiration.  Do you have any quotes that you reference to help pick you back up when you feel suicidal? Are there any other quotes that you find helpful on the topic of suicide that were not included on this list? Feel free to share your personal favorites in the comments section below.

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  • Josh August 4, 2018, 3:42 pm

    My friend commit suicide in 2016. I always thought that suicide was just something you read on newspapers before. But now that I graduated after these rough years and am jobless. I think I started to develop an early sign of depression and begun to understand why people just don’t want to keep on going on this world. I just wish I had a girlfriend or someone to say “I’m home” to, but idk I guess.

  • Dani December 14, 2016, 12:26 am

    I agree with midsm. I failed at committing suicide 6 months ago and struggle every day to hang on. I hang on for other people. People who want to know why… I’m tired of living. I don’t see a future I want. Sometimes I don’t understand why we are so hell bent on keeping people here. I don’t believe this is the only experience our spirits will have.

    I don’t know what’s next but I’m not afraid. We all decide every day whether we stay alive or not. Sometimes that decision is made for us by accidents or illness, but it IS a decision we have to make… whether to keep on living or put an end to it. The quote that speaks to me the most is that suicide can be a great consolation.

    I know I can always opt out, or at least try to. Some of us do want to die. It’s not a passing thought or momentary reflexive action to pain. Platitudes and hollow words of “everything will be better” make me angry and insults me. These kind of quotes don’t make me better, whatever that means.

  • Nicole October 4, 2016, 2:44 pm

    My nephew took his life after a long battle with depression for most of his life. He live with me for a long time and I feel very responsible for his death. I cannot tell you how his decision has destroyed my life, he had to go and I understand that. I am not upset with him I am relieved for him that is pain is over however he killed me the day he blew his head off.

    I am riddled with guilt everyday. His ghost follows me and the visions of how he left this world haunt my dreams. My heart bleeds for him and I can’t get over this. Suicide is not the answer :( it ruins everyone’s life.

  • midsm August 22, 2016, 7:14 pm

    People who think suicide is selfish are selfish people. You don’t know what the other person’s going through and suggesting that they can just get over it, is completely subjective and an testament to your own self-absorbed view of other peoples lives. No one owes their life to anyone else. None of us asked to be brought here and the world is a crappy place anyways.

  • Jimmy July 24, 2016, 7:43 am

    The pain you feeling right now is nothing compared to the pain I felt. As time goes by you’ll forget about me. I didn’t do it cause I wanted to cause you pain but cause of the pain I felt. The sadness killed me. You didn’t take time to listen and know me, I have things that made me happy and sad too. I hope everyone lives happily ever after.

  • John Polk Thompson May 12, 2016, 5:27 pm

    There is no guarantee the torment stops with death.

    • Mostey May 18, 2016, 2:33 pm

      The grass is only greener when you plant the seeds and water it well.

  • Jeremy Wortman January 13, 2016, 8:29 am

    “He thrusts his fists against the posts yet still insists he sees the ghost.” -S.K.

    • Ghost of you March 12, 2016, 2:17 pm

      Bruh, I have no idea what that means but I can come up with stuff too… I think… : “These dreams shatter to nothing more than a mirage of what my heart desires from life.” And here is say “for these big dreams god has gifted me a strong heart to endure the way… But maybe some dreams are too big to follow.” “I wanted to be someone important, I desired to change the world, up until reality reared its ugly head in my path of chosen light and here I die so utterly alone at night” – me…

  • John Culpepper December 14, 2015, 3:52 am

    I think about sucide every day. I find myself lonely and confused about my life. I cannot seem to find happiness in life. I want to be with a women and just enjoying life. Being Bipolar has turned my life in to a living nightmare.

    • Lisa February 5, 2016, 4:26 pm

      John, are you still feeling suicidal? Are you okay?

    • Austin February 6, 2016, 8:42 am

      I think about suicide every day as well. I recently looked up “mental disease”. I thought years ago when I started researching “mental disease” that it seemed kind of bogus. After all what if I don’t like someone else’s thoughts and behavior. Maybe they should think and act like me. They think I should think and act like them. We are all human and we are all individuals with different thoughts and ideas.

      After researching “mental disease” I found the beginning of psychiatry. It originated in the early 1800’s. They use to wrap people in blankets and dunk them in water. This was suppose to cure them. It didn’t. They were making huge money off the first sanitariums also know now as “mad houses”. When they started seeing a decline in profits they came up with something else. And did so over and over as time went on.

      From electro shocking people to bleeding the head because they said the person had too much blood in their head. None of these tactics worked either and they came up with new ways to “cure” people. Now they tell people they have a mental disease and prescribe them pills. This is not working either. The drugs are very addictive and often just kill their consumers with side effects. They are very cheap to make and they sell them for a very high price.

      They make billions and billions of dollars of psychiatric drugs every year. Most of the children that shoot up schools or commit suicide are on psychiatric drugs and apparently they aren’t working either. Psychiatrists have killed more people throughout history that all wars put together have. Things happen in our lives around us that cause us to react in perfectly natural behaviors or thinking. Its called being human.

      I suggest that you look into the history of psychiatry to understand more. If someone says your bipolar its a natural response to something around you in your life. Taking addictive drugs will only worsen your problems. I have been addicted to drugs before and it only leads me to more suicidal thought from having an addiction.

      Yes I still think about suicide often but its because I don’t like watching people push each other around in this world as much as they do. Also I have an IQ of 184 and I have found out recently that the more intelligent you are the more likely you are to commit suicide. Its probably because there are a lot of stupid people in this world. And you cant teach a stupid person anything. It’s very very frustrating.

      For me, I try to stay away from people, except for other intelligent people and I also watch almost no TV anymore. It frustrates me as well. I spend a lot of time with my son or trying to learn more things about human behavior that can be backed up with some kind of science rather that just someone’s opinion of “your crazy” or you this or that. It’s their opinion and if you ask me its not a good opinion. There’s no science involved with diagnosing a “mental disease”.

      All other diseases can be found using science such as cancer or AIDS. I hope this helps. You are human as we all are. Don’t jump off the bridge because the guy down below says your acting weird up there on the bridge and don’t stay on the bridge next to him either if you want to walk down to the bottom. If he wants to act differently then let him stay on or off the bridge and deal with his own opinions.

      • KekiJeanne May 18, 2016, 4:05 am

        Very insightful, thank you for sharing!

      • Chris January 27, 2018, 11:27 am

        What you said is spot on… my IQ 160 and no child but the rest is same. Zyprexa works in about 12 minutes it will nock you off the current mood in England they use it for e.r. drug cases also. There is evidence of a biological factor that may cause psychiatric symptom stemming from stomach biota. Ever felt funny when you got sick? Same thing.

        Diagnosis you have a problem with? I can spot a schizophrenic or manic depressed person across a room its very easy like spotting a light at night. The drugs other than zyprexa haven’t worked for me either and zyprexa is only effective for me when I’m fully triggered. So I agree try the drugs if it works for you OK if it doesn’t then like me it’s a battle.

        My advice: stay away from TV’s news or talk radio forget politics and war and go play with your kids outside. Do anything outside walk go to park or water. Stare at wild life (don’t watch seagulls there worse than humans). My relief is solo sailing it really really works and I find myself smiling alone in the sea not often but sometimes. Good luck try change diet go outside turn off broadcast TV and for gods sakes pull up your pants…

  • Gankhuleg Gansukh October 25, 2015, 5:41 pm

    “The man who kills a man kills a man. The man who kills himself kills all men. As far as he is concerned, he wipes out the world.” Chesterton is saying, world is full of things that should keep a man busy and excited. So if you take your own life you are destroying or else saying the world is nothing, there is nothing that is worth.

  • Susan September 29, 2014, 5:34 am

    2 Samuel 22:5-7 ESV

    “For the waves of death encompassed me, the torrents of destruction assailed me; the cords of Sheol entangled me; the snares of death confronted me. “In my distress I called upon the Lord ; to my God I called. From his temple he heard my voice, and my cry came to his ears.

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